Afternoon ladies, I hope you don’t mind my intrusion…
I’ve been reading through the thread “ask a MtF transsexual” and I actually wanting to ask a question to the entire female transgendered spectrum.
My question is this: if you are sexually attracted to men, would it matter to you if they were FtM? Especially Pre-op FtM’s.
My reason for asking such question is because I have encountered numerous gay men who have shuddered at the thought, gay crossdressers, gay transvestites and rarely straight MtF transsexuals who have also shuddered at the thought, simply because FtMs do not have a penis.
I have also encountered straight MtF’s mocking FtM’s because of their body. I don’t want to repeat what was said, as it was truly appalling!
I have also realised that when such people speak of men, they include “FtM too” into the sentence as if we are something less. Are we? Cause if I’m honest with any of you, I think we are more of a man than any GM, cause we have had to fight for the right to be accepted as men.
We also don‘t really care if people consider us “pretend men”, because straight away, they feel threatened enough into believing such a thing. We have worked for that honour, but I ask this for the sole reason that it hurts the very most when we are belittled for lacking the correct organ between our legs. That is all.
It seems so trivial, but has a massive effect on how us guys see ourselves when we are being tortured for the rejection. We know we don’t have that part, we beat ourselves up every single moment of the day, then we are horribly reminded of it. I’m sure you ladies understand to differing degrees, from the other side of the GID issues. My thoughts are obviously biased, as I am medically “FtM” but nonetheless.
This question may have been asked before, and I apologise if I am repeating…
Thank you for taking the time to read this. Take care x
P.s- complete honestly is respected.