[SIZE="2"]Hi ladies.
Well I finally got round to sitting down with my wife to discuss why Joanne suddenly vanished from our lives.
I explained that after she had said in one of our discussion on crossdressing, that she felt Joanne was taking over more of her husband. I said I thought the only answer I could see to that worry was to remove Joanne from our lives.
She then told me that was not what she meant and was sorry that I had taken the action I did without talking it over with her first. Just as most of you had said to me in your replies.
What she meant, was that when Joanne was around, she was full of fun happy with how things were, things that were missing from her husband these days. She explained that he was so negative about things and always complaining about silly things like people puttng their waste bins out before the legal time.
I just did not think that in my drab mode I was behaving like this. I thought about it and said, that since I had come out to her, Joanne had been released from the closet, that it was like a breath of fresh air in her life and she had a whole new world to explore.
She could dress more, she now had all the wonderful clothes to choose from, not the drab things her husband wore, now it was bright colored dresses, shoes, lingerie,etc.
It was like a female teenager being give the freedom to spend and look and feel like a true woman.
This I believed this could be the only reason why Joanne was behaving in this fashion and that I just had'nt realised "I" was behaving in the way she descibed to me.
I have promised that I will try to be more like Joanne when I return to my drab state, but she has to tell me if I am still continuing my bad ways.
So girls I once again thank you all for the good advice and I can tell you " It feels great to be back "
LOL Joanne[/SIZE]