It was interesting reading through this thread, but I am no more enlightened as I was in the beginning. Lol. If you gals can't agree on why you do this, can you imagine how hard it is for your SO's to understand?
The common explanations are: it makes me feel complete, it enables me to tap into my softer side, I love women so much I want to be one, I couldn't get a girlfriend so I made up my own, it feels good, I love the clothes, being a guy is boring, it is partly or all sexual for me, I'm making up for a lack of mothering or fathering, I grew up in a family of sisters ... and I'm sure I missed some.
This is what I don't get:
Once you do give yourselves permission to express the femininity that you so badly need to express, then why isn't it ever enough?
Why the constant need for more clothes, more shoes, more jewelry? Is it a preoccupation with beauty, more than femininity? How many of you are not satisfied with being a girl and instead you want to be a beautiful girl? I mean, we are all born with the attributes that we have and we can't change those. I can't change my chin, the shape of my nose, etc. It's as if you are after an impossible (not meaning to be insulting) ideal ... an ideal that many GGs would enjoy as well, only we don't go after it with nearly the same amount of gusto as you do? Most of us GGs do come to terms with how we look.
So again, once you do give yourselves permission to be your inner femme (of course, after a time of experimenting to learn how), why isn't this enough?