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    I am 100% out.

    After a lifetime of secrecy, From 5 up until 22. It is done. "No more April Fools, No more Haloween, No more shopping for my girlfriend, Mother, Sister, etc." No more excuses. No more seperate myspace accounts, I am now one. I posted my new wine pic on my REAL facebook where old friends, teachers, people from my childhood, professors, and the whole world can see. I have exposed the Beauty from inside that has been hidden from the world in bondage.

    Now all my fears, insecurities, and mental barriers die with a resounding bang and without any tears shed from my part. The intolerant people can take my blood but never my freedom.

    No more do I have to hide behind an Alias. No more do I have to hide my face, No more do I have to hide what I am from anyone. I am free. There will NEVER be a moment in the rest of my life where I have to confess to my wife, or my girlfriend.

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    Jade,
    Congradulations! Yours is a very strong statement and it sounds like you have a very positive attitude. I wish you the very, very best.
    Sarah
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    Congratulations on taking a big step. You seem very optimistic and confident about your decision, that's really good. How did people respond to it so far?
    "One day Jessy, I'm gonna show you the world..."

    God stepped back, looked at Adam, and declared "I can do better than that!" and so He created women.
    The ITer stepped back, looked at the beta results, and declared "I can do better than that!" and so he created the final version.
    Sometimes in the final version, some of the beta crap still remains. I know, because I'm living proof.

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    Free at last, free at last. Now doesn't that feel better just being yourself.

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    I am so impressed by your courage!

    Be strong!

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    It really feels good to not have to hide.

    I think this is a wonderful thing for you.
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    wow! that is great. congratulations. you are very brave.

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    Fair play to you.
    I genuinely hope it all works out for you.
    Keeps us all up to date on developments?

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    Friggin' awesome! I wish I could go back 20 years and do the same thing.

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    That is so cool and so inspiring. My thanks go to you for being so brave
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    Smile

    it would be 30 years back for me,

    but if i were to come out i would lose my job right from the get go. laws not with standing...just how my co workers would react. my "friends" ?
    due to work hr's i am alone in a sea of people.

    you have got it right, be one with your self from the start, no hiding, no lies, no ?. be your self and we all here are behind you, so lets hear how some of your life goes.

    Loni

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    "If you are living the life you want to live you've successfully transitioned to being the person you want to be." - Eryn.

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    Daaaamn, Jade! A big WOW from me.

    I do have to ask, though, did anything prompt you to be so bold and true?

    Whatever it is (if it's anything) color me impressed...

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    Congratulations ! - no more secrets, or worrying someone will find out - just freedom

    hugs Suzy

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    wow

    That is awesome and congratulations! I am hoping to do the same thing later this year...
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    Jade,

    All the very best to you, hun. It's a brave thing you're doing but something you obviously need to do.

    Take care.

    Sara xxx

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    Wow, very brave and fearless. I hope all goes well and everyone is excepting.

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    Sounds like the statement of a very brave person who knows who they are and moving forward to enjoy life!

    Congrats.

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    Hi Jade
    Congratulations !
    I wish you the best of luck and hope you enjoy your freedom to be YOU !
    Tomara

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    Congratulations Jade, good luck with everything.
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    Congratulations Jade - Be proud of who you are and what you stand for. Never apologise, never hide. Get out there and have fun. People accept you much easier if you've already accepted yourself!


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    You will find, as I did, that it's a much lighter road when not carrying a load of fear and guilt on one's shoulder. And that for all the things one should be prepared to face and lose, about 98 percent never happened and was all in my head. A happy heart is a fearless heart. Carol

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    Jade, congratulations!

    What an inspiring post! It shows how ones strength can overcome any fear. The feeling of freedom is almost indescribable. It is your now and nothing or nobody can ever take that away from you.

    XO

    Soriya

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