I was writing an email to someone to get a speaker for an upcoming meeting of our support group. When I finished reading it I realized that much of the note was attempting to define crossdressers by what we are not. We are not gay any more than the general population, we are not all drag queens, we are not pedophiles, we are not serial killers who wear the skin of our victims under a delicate lavendar cami, we are not . . . .
Is it possible to explain to a "civilian" in our society what a crossdresser is without spending all that time distancing ourselves from all the stereotypes that seem substitute for reality?