thnx sarah for your post...
i can't argue that some guys leer...and i would run from that guy...and i know some girls that would run to him...to each their own..
this is a terrific thread...i learned alot reading gea's post...
men are men...most men want sex..and they want it now.
the whole concept of being wanted for who you are in total vs. the concept of a "chaser (of BBW, CD, S&M etc)" wanting you only for that one specific thing makes it different, and i have to agree that it can be upsetting to folks...i never thought of it that way...thnx!!!
i kinda like the wolf in waiting....if he's for real and he's willing to wait a bit ...then i'm ok being a she-wolf