Well put, Sarah,
Crumbs, that is what you fed your wife while she shared her hopes and fears and intermost thoughts and love with you.
I want to cry,
Presh GG
God, that wasn't helpfull at all , I'm sorry.
There is no set rule, some will understand , others will be ok, then not then ok. It all depends on how willing you are to help her understand this side of you.
You know your wife, we do not.
PreshGG