My wife just got a gift card in the mail for a free Victoria's Secret panty.
She's at work right now.
Looks like I got a new pair of panties to pick up tomorrow...
My wife just got a gift card in the mail for a free Victoria's Secret panty.
She's at work right now.
Looks like I got a new pair of panties to pick up tomorrow...
For your wife I hope
I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me
...for your wife, right? Eh?
ed: sheila beat me...
And so we go, on with our lives...
We know the Truth, but prefer Lies.
Lies are simple, simple is Bliss.
Why go against tradition, when we can admit defeat,
Live in Decline, be the victim of our own design?
Some people just don't get it do they, then they wonder where their marriage went wrong
Your post seems to insinuate that you may be doing something dishonest. If that's the case, and you're looking for high fives, you're probably barking up the wrong tree.
I'm betting that your wife will never wear them. While you are at VS, try on and pick up some bras also.
Freddy
Agreed.... if the gift certificate is for your wife, it would be wrong of you to use with without her concent:
Lots of Love,
Miss Kara
A man cannot exist without a woman, but a woman can exist without a man. Who is the lesser gender?
for your wife right!!!!
Back when I was married, the ex and I were Victoria's Secret regulars. There was a famous visit where I was tired from the mall walking, and was crouching down beneath the crotchless panties...not looking, just resting...really.
A beautiful saleswoman came up and asked if I was ok, or if I needed any help finding anything. I explained that my wife was shopping and I was resting. Next thing I knew, she was crouching with me, and giving me full view of her underwearless self. I looked. I was stunned. I looked again. She smiled.
End of story, except that I told the then-wife what had happened, and she was furious with me for looking.
That was the last time I was in a Victoria's Secret store, but catalogs still arrive.
Why not get the panties? Nobody has been hurt or lied to.
Because the gift voucher is in her wifes nameOriginally Posted by Anneliese
sometimes we feel we are
I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me
When I get the gift cards, I pick them up for my wife....BJ
hope the mail man puts on of them in our mail box
I can see the points you're both making. I wouldn't do it, but it doesn't seem like a major deal to me. I get hundreds of coupons in the mail I never use and wouldn't care if anyone else did. However, honesty is always the best policy.
Jazmyne, I think your wife is entitled to her own gift card. I cannot think of a single reason why you can't get your own. ....just sayin'
Buy something for her to make her happy.....buy something for yourself to make you happy. All sales attendants at VS don't care who buys what for who, they don't judge.
Last edited by NathalieX66; 05-11-2010 at 07:41 PM.
And also because it's an incredible opportunity, (really,almost like a message from the gods the way it was presented,) to get one's 'sexy projections' off of themselves and put some of it back on their partners, where it might bring intimacy closer instead of wedge it further apart.
If the OP went out and picked the exact panties she would have picked for herself, but instead got them in the wife's size, and presented them to her, it would be an extremely symbolic gift.
And so we go, on with our lives...
We know the Truth, but prefer Lies.
Lies are simple, simple is Bliss.
Why go against tradition, when we can admit defeat,
Live in Decline, be the victim of our own design?
Unbelievable...get your own damn gift card Jazmyne.
Merry
HRT since 2009
haha I bet she thinks Victoria Secret is so nice for sending it to her.
got one today going tomorrow
I am in agreement with the others her - Get your own account and use your own gift card. Its simple go in and purchase something and get your name in the system then you and your wife will get the free panty gift certificate.
Your wife might be expecting it and then make an inquiry about it only to find out her card has been redeemed. That might raise an eyebrow with her.
Wrong. It's the lie of omission--definitely a lie. Did I mention "wrong"?
warmly, Linnea
Whenever my wife and I apply for free gifts,samples etc like this we enter for both of us,whoever recieves their "prize" well thats just your luck.
Another way to look at this is wouldn't it be just as good to see your Wife getting excited at getting some new,sexy undies
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We'll someone should use the card. I can't tell you how many gift cards the wife has never redeemed.
Wow, you really think I'm that mean?
No, it's hers. It gives me a better reason to stop by and shop
I'm afraid you left that impression, Jazmyne.
Hmmm... I couldn't make a big deal about it when my sister used the one I rec'd in the mail as I am not yet out to anyone... The family just thought I was put on some mailing list and my sister couldn't thank me enough for her free panty... As I cursed her under my breath!
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