There is a current active thread on self-hate that got me thinking about the alternative. The human body is interesting and if we are deficient in a necessary chemical we will find a way to ingest it. There are great examples of pregnant women searching out and eating a particular type of dirt that held minerals needed for fetal development. No, I'm not asking if any of you eat dirt.
I'm wondering if in a similar fashion our crossdressing is feeding a particular psychological need that can't be nourished better any other way. What do you get from your crossdressing experience that is unique? Please don't just write that it feeds your feminine side, we still don't have a good shared definition of what feminine means. Try to identify the specific condition that evaportates when you slip into your girl world. Or maybe it's not relieving a problem but providing a benefit that is not available without crossdressing. It could be anything I guess, but I'd love to see the positive side of crossdressing explored just a little more.