Some folks will go on and on saying we were born in the wrong body, should have been a girl, were an accident of Nature, yadda, yadda. I, personally, dismiss all of that reasoning and believe we are exactly who and what we are supposed to be. If we had no diversity in this world it would be a pretty dull place indeed. Everyone tends to want to catagorize everyone and everything so it can all be put in it's "proper place", hence we need labels and titles for everything. Some things really cannot be labeled, catagorized or tied up in a neat little ribbon, they just ARE.
We are basically here to experience feelings and emotions in the illusion of time. Part of that is designed to see how we utilize the resources given to us. Many of us are destined to experience both sets of feelings. I wouldn't know how it feels to be a "two dimensional" person and have only one set of feelings to work with, so I make use of all of them.Basically, this is our contribution to diversity. Why do you feel we are who we are?