1) have you had sex with your female partner while dressed and if so what was that like?
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Yes frequently. It's certainly not how most men have sex with females! When I'm dressed I feel completely feminine to the tips of my toes and so any kind of masculine activity is out of the question.
2) when you have sex with your female partner while not dressed does the act of sex with a woman make you feel more masculine for that period of time.
Yes it does, but that has little effect (see below)
3) does the sexual desire to dominate a woman (something i would think is conventionally strongly attached to masculinity) diminish your feminine side. I.e. when you fantasize about being dominant or "having your way" in bed with a woman do you still feel feminine or the desire to CD during those fantasies?
I have never had a desire to dominate a woman - quite the contrary. The woman always has to be the dominant partner for me.
4) what do you think about your penis when you are dressed. That is, does its emotional/physical/symbolic value/meaning to you change or diminish when you are dressed? If so please elaborate on how.
My p is very small and serves no practical use in the bedroom. When I am dressed, it is completely invisible and undetectable and so I don't think about it at all.