Universal Answer - it depends.
Am I a warrior or a princess? Yes. Once again, we come to the point where our thinking is forced down one path or another. Must we be so binary?
In my "real" life, I guess I would be a warrior. I wear Kevlar and carry an M-16. I work with bombs, bullets, missiles, nukes and jets. I work among highly testosterone-charged guys who go out of their way to show how manly they are. However, I am a princess, and everyone pretty much knows it. I am soft. I am gentle. I am caring. I am not entirely large.
With all of that, though, I am a good leader, and get respect without demanding it. Whether that is due to my rank, my advanced years (as I tell some of the new Airmen, "Kid, I have
underwear older than you!"), or other things, I don't know.
Basically, I feel that I am both a warrior and a princess - a princess who doesn't need to be saved by another warrior. I am my
own warrior. I simply choose not to dress in smelly old armor, but in lace and pearls.
Kathi