It was not my intention to call anyone here a fool. I've fallen for the "image" too a few times, and I don't consider myself to be foolish. We are all bombarded daily with the "ideal look". And perhaps using the term "service" was not accurate, since of course the retailers are in it for the bottom line and they aren't out to help us look our best.
I just wanted to raise an awareness. When I fall for a look on an online site or in a fashion magazine, I've learned to take into account the model's age and body proportions, and I do try to picture myself wearing the outfit in the places that I frequent on a daily basis. This has saved me from making some mistakes.
But still, out of weakness at the end of last summer, I bought a pair of those sexy, cagey gladiator type, modestly studded, 4 inch leather sandals on sale. I can't find anything in my closet to wear with them, and even if I bought such an outfit, I wouldn't be able to wear it in my day to day activities.