i find myself going out now with other girl friends three or four times a month now at night.you know clubbin it up.then i find myself going out during the day three or four times a week now just to do errends or whatever.i rarely get made now,and even if i do im still treated with nothing but kindness,and respect.its mind blowing!!!.if you look at my profile you ladies can see how ive been dressing for days or nights.going out is so liberating i cant even begin to explain.oh last week i had a drag queen friend do my makeup.false eyelashes and all.my eyes were the best part of the whole thing.