I have two questions (1 & 2). For Crossdressers who are not currently in a relationship and I have two questions (3 & 4). For those who are in relationships. Looking at “The Picture and Video Gallery” I don’t see MTF Crossdressers or men dressing like women. I see just many beautiful women. I have been on many different dating sites and on one, a woman wrote back that I looked better than most women on the site! What I have found is that I am attached to women that make an effort to look “good” Women who take the time and effort to show themselves off! When talking to a GG about this, she made the comment that women get tired of doing this. In my past relationships I have not brought up my crossdressing. The biggest reason was a matter of trust. In one relationship that produced my now thirteen old daughter. I did tell my daughter’s mother after several years (less than a year before my daughter’s birth and her mom was more accepting before than after)
My questions to you are:
1.) Is the way we dress and the way we feel when dressed any reflection on the kind of women we wish to meet?
2.) Describe your fantasy woman partner?
3.) When we meet someone are we settling for the lesser of two evils being in a relationship and hiding or being along and lonely?
4.) Why did you not tell your SO about your crossdressing when you met or at least when you got married?