i posted this on the teen forum, but id also like to just see what any of you more experienced ladies had to say as well .
well you've probably heard it a million times and certainly a few times from me. but right now, im just so lost and confused. like this feeling im experiencing, its like i feel trapped and annoyed. its hard to describe, maybe some of you have faced it before. i just really dont know what to do anymore. i havent dressed (even put on undies) in so long and its mainly for the reason that my parents know and dont like the idea of crossdressing. since this is, i feel guilty just thinking about doing it. idk why either. i mean right now the urge to dress is slowly killing me as i keep holding back. im sure the level of urgentness will go away eventually and ill be fine where i am again. but i honestly dont want to keep living this way. its like every time this happens i die a little more. yes, i could just go dress and be done with it. but i dont think that will solve anything really. just doing it wont help. what i really need is just that acceptance that if say i wear a cami and some short shorts to knock around in in the house. the worst part is, i dont think it will ever happen, the acceptance that is. to add on to that, its just so hard, because you either put up with keeping it away to make your family function like old times and just suffer yourself or you make yourself happy and thus making the people you love around you unhappy. yes, i know that in the end you gotta do whats best for you. but thats also my dilema, i love my family so much, i dont want to hurt them. so for now im just sucking it up and trying to keep it hidden. but i really dont know how much longer i can last. anyway, really really needed to rant and get some of this off my chest. thanks for listening to all my ramble :P