Ts/tv/tg dating site.

[BRANDYJ]

I did go on 3 dates before I got banned the first time.

The bad part was I didn’t get any notifications from the website. I did however get a nasty message from a GG saying that I shouldn’t post this type of profile on a dating site. I wonder if she filed a complaint with the site. It was shortly thereafter that I could no longer log into the site so I created a new user name and posted basically the same profile. It only took about 3 days before I could no longer log in with the new user name, after that I gave up.

Ironically I had a profile on a pay site for about a year, similar profile and never got banned or nasty messages.

The statement used on both sites: (When at home for the evening and not expecting company I like to get comfortable, for me that might be dressing en femme.). That was the only hint of CD.

I would bet money that the site you are referring to is POF. They have some really ugly moderators that if they don't like you or what you say, they have the power to delete you. It happened to a bunch of friends of mine over a posted party while all the rules of the site were followed. Seems that one moderator just got jealous of the party planner and ruined it for over a hundred people. That's when most went over to a much friendlier site called datehookup. I just hate the name of the site since it sounds like a sex pick up place, but it's not.

I left POF on my own after that.

[Dee Baker]

And the winner is… Brandy!

[BRANDYJ]

And the winner is… Brandy!

I thought so. POF used to be a friendly place to meet either dates or just friends. Now it is like a bad dictatorship.

So go over to datehookup.cm and join there. Better forums then POF and a much better over-all experience with less moderation. Like POF, it is totally free. Never a charge for anything.

Just don't start a thread about cross dressing. You will get ripped to shreds by those that are not tolerant. I still say leave that out of your profile and get to know a woman before you tell her about your being a CD.

[Dee Baker]

I thought so. POF used to be a friendly place to meet either dates or just friends. Now it is like a bad dictatorship.

So go over to datehookup.cm and join there. Better forums then POF and a much better over-all experience with less moderation. Like POF, it is totally free. Never a charge for anything.

Just don't start a thread about cross dressing. You will get ripped to shreds by those that are not tolerant. I still say leave that out of your profile and get to know a woman before you tell her about your being a CD.

It has been quite some time since I posted a profile on a dating site. At the time my social life was in shambles. I have no family in the state where I live and very few friends where I work.

Over time my social life has improved “no thanks to the dating site” and today I don’t feel a need to post on a dating site.

If I find myself in that situation again I will certainly take the advice on which site to post on.

[~Michelle~]

I find it completely ridiculous and unacceptable that one would get banned from a 'regular' dating site because they are a crossdresser. WTF. Talk about discrimination.

Indeed. On top of that you're being punished for being honest, when honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship.

[StarrOfDelite]

All I can say about Online Dating sites are of two types in my experience. Either they are so straight that they will print ***tail if you want to use the generic term for a Manhattan or Martini, or they are so sex-oriented that they are unlikely to produce any valid responses at all.

I have never had much interest in meeting women when presenting as a female, but I suspect that to expect much interest from G-girls is a pretty forlorn hope. Most, not all, of the people on this site who are Hetero and married seem to have problems keeping their long-term partners accommodated happily to their crossdressing, so it would seem to me that finding a woman who is actively interested in dating a CD/TV would be like finding the proverbial needle.

I had a profile on Adult Friend Finder when I was a few years younger and proportionately more reckless, and almost every response was from a male. The men fell into four general categories: First, "straight" guys who had watched a lot of ******* Porn, and were expecting a 45-55 year old crossdresser to resemble some 25 y.o. androgene with latex boobs; second, teenagers/ young twenties who just wanted someone/anyone who would supply a warm, wet receptacle for their manhood; third, picture collectors who liked to get tons of pix to which they could masturbate without ever risking interpersonal contact; and fourth, guys who wanted me to hump them.

I think that in all of the time I was on AFF, and Alt, I corresponded with maybe a grand total of five genetic women, and another dozen male/female couples. The women were pretty much all merely curious, and most of the couples wanted to do really weird stuff and take lots of pictures. I should add, that with the single women I initiated all of the correspondences.


To top it off, once I thought I'd identified a possibly nice guy, the percentage of no-shows was about 80%, and, of those who actually showed up for a drink at a bar, the percentage who matched their photos and profile was about ten percent of the remainder.

It wasn't a total waste of effort, because I did wind up meeting a few decent people with whom I have had intermittent relationships. But, be prepared to put in the time, and be prepared to suffer many more disappointments than triumphs.