So lately by lately i mean the last 6months, ive been having my gender depression swings as usual except ive noticed a drastic change in them, and possibly alarming.
each and every time i would swing into a depression i would cry my eyes out write a suicide note that i would never finish, wake up the next morning and then a few days later i was happy again. vented the bottled up emotions, and went on my way to do it all again the next swing.
the usual Up down like the heart beat moniter in a hospitle. but then something started to happen... i would swing in to my lows like usuall except each time it would take longer to come back up and my mood has never gotten back up, getting lower and lower each time.
the intencity of the depression is getting stronger and im having a very hard time controlling it like i used to, as some may have read, last month i let slip that i was a transgender to my military unit. even though the peopel that know are willing to help... i still feel like utter shit and like they look at me completely different now. and even small things that didnt bother me before are starting to weigh on my mind and hurt alot more then they used to.
The forum that i moderate for is very well away of my transgender status and i always take a female stand point, identifing as a lesbien, and i get constantly harassed for it there.
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it cuts pretty deep...Originally Posted by dexion_powered
im currently in the process of getting help via military insitution(because the suicide word got thrown in) but im not sure what they can do to help, i mean i need to see a gender specialist who is just going to tell me to transition anyways which is something i cant do right now unless i ask for a medical discharge...but then that brings my whole finacial situation to the ground....
i dont know what left there is to do...
last night i was thinking to myself...
maybe i should just accept the fact im a man and i should marry some woman or something.
ive noticed a big change in my sexual standpoint as well ive lost any intrest at all in men, completely and utterly, as well as i have "toys" but that now lay untouched because the just dont work for me anymore.
*Sigh i dont even know what im doing.... am i jest venting, asking for help? pleaing? i dont understand...*