That would ruin the experience for me. When I dress it is to "let Kara out" and I want to be, for that time, as female as I can be. At the risk of starting a "label war" I would describe myself as a bigendered CD. I want to be male OR female, depending on how I feel. I do sometimes wear VS underwear (panties) when otherwise drab, if I'm feeling girly but can't dress, but to the outside world I am presenting as male, apart from my lighlty plucked eyebrows, and maybe painted toenails! These little things help me stay (relatively) sane int he too-long periods between my getting chance to let Kara out.