... clothing fetishes? What do they mean to you? How important are they in your lives? How did they start? What is it about the particular piece of clothing that makes it so exciting, almost more exciting than a SO? How much of it is tied to your femme identities and how much is just worshipping the item for the item's sake?
Honestly I don't want to single out anyone, but there's a thread about stockings going on right now that I'm using as an example. There have been other threads about different types of clothing ... lingerie, skirts, suits, sweaters, boots, it doesn't matter which.
When I read the threads it sounds as if the item in question is one of the most important things in the world. How does this happen, and how is it possible to love a SO equally as much, when it sounds as if nothing can compare to the excitement of wearing whatever item floats your boats?
I know that not everyone in this forum feels this way about specific items of clothing, but there seem to be an awful lot that do and I'm just trying to understand.
Thank you all for your replies. You don't have to answer point by point, each and every one of my questions. I'd just love to hear your thoughts in your own words.