Having read many of the threads and posts here over time, as well as having conversations with friends and passing acquaintances, I find that the one thing about cd's and gay people at the core of both is,
Is this something you do or is this something you are?
I found out, to me, it's something I am, having tried to not do it. You can do or not do something, but it's hard to not be what you are.
Any thoughts?
Kate