Stress and X-Dressing

[Fab Karen]

Big stress can cause some women ( GG's ) as well to not feel in the mood to do those girly things we love ( I should add here that not all GG's are into "girly things" ).
Regardless of being a CD, it can help if you focus your thoughts, take each moment as it comes rather than letting your thoughts ramble in ten different directions at once- what is happening right this second. & if you notice crazy thoughts coming up, try to observe it from a distance like it's a movie. Thoughts and feelings come & go, they are not who you are.

[dieselman79]

Maybee try wearimg some of Koka's clothes under your work clothes, like panties and/or a light top. It might even help to relieve some of the stress.

[suchacutie]

I cannot deal with stress and Tina at the same time. Hmmm, that came out a little oddly so let me explain. I really enjoy Tina. My wife enjoys her gf. We both are rather protective of Tina in many ways. One of those ways is not to intrude in Tina's adventure any really serious stress. This position has accomplish a number of positive things. One is that Tina time is always really terrific! We have a great time and learn a bit more about who Tina is. Another is that I've really worked at reducing the stress and outside interferences, basically having more control over my life...a clear positive. Ok, the downside is that Tina spends a little less time with us than she otherwise might, but the quality is much more important than the quantity (having both being the ideal!).

While I'm dealing with some life stress/deadlines/requirements, I do think about Tina, practice her voice, underdress, talk about her with my wife, and generally try to move her forward by planning for her next visit and thinking about the issues that need to be improved. There's always something from makeup to deportment to hair to clothes to voice! She's never gone, just on vacation

tina

[Shadeauxmarie]

It is the opposite for me. When I stress, I want to dress.

[Yvonne York]

Just keep in touch on here hun. Work stress can be the worst feeling - I know full well. But I have suffered so much over the past year with work stress, but it has not affected my female side. If anything, I feel it is stronger. Is it the escape, or what? I don't know, but I hope you can start to enjoy dressing again hun - very soon.

[Koka]

Hi All,

For all you who read my previous post regarding stress and x-dressing , I wanted to let you know that this past weekend I decided to shake all negativity off and I hit the Big Apple for a night of glamour and fun. Thank you all for your support and kind words. I had a great time in New York City. Below a couple of pictures for you to see.

Love you all

Koka

[Tanya83]

Cute outfits.

[StaceyJane]

Wow, that's great! CDing in downtown New York.

[Ashleythenewgirl]

Way to go Koka! Glad you had fun!

[Bobbie Bee]

Wow, you look gorgeous Koka and I'm glad you had a good time.

[April Renee]

Great pics! Looks like you had a great time. Is it just me or does "that guy" in pic # 2 look like he's wearing a t shirt with cameras printed on the front? You in front of a camera and him behind with that shirt..LOL.
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[maverick.saxena]

wow way to go girll!!! glad you had fun and relieved your stress..

[Miranda09]

WOW...good for you Koka! You look fab girl....

[kimdl93]

Way to go, Koka. I'm so glad you were able to pull yourself up and get out into the world. There's no better remedy for depression in my experience, than being out and about. It helps too when you're incredibly cute!

[AKAMichelle]

Sounds like you have a wonderful weekend.

[Koka]

Thank you all for your support !!

Love

Koka

[brassieres]

Its funny that you mention stress and crossdressing. I am just the opposite, stress increases my desire to crossdress. While less stress decreases my desire instead.