My wife trusts both of us completely and she should. Jenn and I hang out alone a lot. She's one of those women that despite my knowing she is beautiful there's never been any sexual feelings there. Jenn and I are really into bad reality tv shows like the Hills, The City and The Real Housewives, but my wife hates all of that. So after I came out Jenn said I always felt like you were one of my girlfriends, like I could tell you anything. I love to hear and give advice about her dating life and get so excited when she meets a new guy. She told me my cding is really a cool thing, that I should always be myself even if I'm more DeeDee than my real self. She'd always be my friend.