"Daddy, do boys wear dresses?"
I paused to think carefully about my answer. My daughter has never seen me dressed, and my wife and I have agreed that, at least for now, we don't want to tell her. I wanted to avoid getting into trans-politics, but obviously I wasn't going to give the narrow-minded (and untruthful) answer of "No." So I responded: "Some do, but most don't. Many people think that boys shouldn't wear dresses, but I think anybody should be able to wear anything they want. What do you think?"
She cheerfully said, "I used to think dresses were for girls, but if a boy wants to dress as a princess or a queen, that's okay." I'm so proud of her!
So how would you have responded if in a similar situation?
p.s. This same girl told her mom that her dream was to have a pink and purple castle filled with My Little Ponies and Lady Gaga and Ru Paul CDs. She's goes off to kindergarten next week. It'll be interesting to see how her peers will react to this "nice little girl with strange opinions."