Originally Posted by
Stephenie S
Well hon, you asked.
The boobs are too big. Just a fact. Male or female, it don't matter. If you have big boobs you are gonna get looked at, a lot. And that's just what you don't need. You want people to see a pleasant looking woman, not a sex-pot. Because they are going to stare at the sex pot no matter WHAT your gender.
And on that subject, I recall you saying that you try to look sexy. Again, if that's your "look", then you are going to get looked at. Get used to it. The sexier your look, the more attention you are gonna draw. That's just what you don't need.
So my advice? Tone it down a bit. Listen dear, you don't have to mesmerize men with your clothes and your look. They do it all by themselves. A man will go after anything in a skirt and a smile. Stop trying so hard. Relax. Remember, the sexier the look, the more attention you will get. But if you're hiding something, sometimes that attention is not such a good thing.
Don't worry, this will all come with time. It's hard to get the practice you need to do this well with only one or two outings a month. Go full time. Then see what happens.
Stephie