My wife has known of my cross dressing for the 10 or so years. At first she was accepting of it, then it slowly went down hill to don't ask/ don't tell situation, and I can do whatever I want with the money I make.
Ok, so the other day I went to VS and bought 5 pairs of panties, and I put one pair in her drawer. Later in the day, I get the question, are you still dressing in women's clothes. I replied that I do occasionally. She response was that she would do what she needs to do. Later she said that even though I have my quirks, she will keep me around.
Anyway, today she mentioned that a woman she works with, divorced her husband after finding out he was a TV. This was said as a fact and did not appear to contain a threat.
Is she starting to reach out and open this up for discussion? Do I just let her make her comments and maybe ask questions, or should I be more active in pushing this?
Thanks for any help you can give.