Why? Because women are perceived as the "weaker sex" and for a man to "demean" themselves and take a step downward from their vaunted perch on top of the pile (of what, I'll decline to mention), would be an insult to manliness overall.
Personally, I don't care. I get so many compliments from women on how I'm different, rare, and one of the illusory "sensitive males." I don't mind it! Tonight, at a church auction, I saw a friend of mine and said, "OK, girl - let's see the
shoes!" She always wears the most
incredible stilettos! She lifted up her jeans and showed me (they were gorgeous, by the way). Her friend asked her what she was doing (I guess she didn't see/hear me). She said, "Oh, he always compliments me on my shoes. Isn't that great? My husband never even notices what I wear. Actually he has incredible taste in women's shoes." She then turned to me and said, "We should go shoe shopping sometime!"
Now, that said, am I - the sensitive male - the type that gets the girl? Nope. Her husband is about 6' 3" - in both height
and width (all muscle).
That is the kind of guy that cares about getting on top of the pile. The rest of us? Heck, let's go shoe shopping!
Kathi