Well, It looks like the bigots at my workplace are at it again. My car has once again been keyed. I've talked to HR, and have set up an appointment to discuss what happened and possibly why. This is the second time my car has been keyed, my windows were once scratched with a ring, "I'm Gay" smeared in the dirt on my trunk, and a tire slashed bad enough I almost had to replace it (keep in mind there are child seats in the back seat of the car, what kind of animal risks kids?) The real clincher was the bra that someone left hanging on my license plate some time ago. We're talking real, serious harassment.
I've talked to my supervisors, but never explained why I feel like they are targeting me. They are dumbfounded as to why since I have no real enemies we are aware of, I do my job well, and thought I was well liked. The party(ies) responsible know about my dressing (I'm married and still in the closet, but funny what you say when under mild sedation at the hospital where they have relatives) as they have made smart ass remarks that are surprisingly pointed about my sexuality.
Living in the closet has made me fearful of reciprocating, but I've had enough of this crap. How do I approach HR without fully exposing my crossdressing to the system? What should I do? I fear that those responsible will expose me to my family, or that they may even get physical as retribution for my taking it up with management.
HELP!