This one might be kinda hard to explain but I'm guessing that others have felt this way. In a nutshell, I feel that I have somewhat lost a sense of my male self, mainly do to my crossdressing. It makes sense to feel that way while dressed but it also affects me while in guy mode. I sometimes feel like I have to "crank up" the testosterone in certain situations or be the typical alpha male but I find myself more often............not. Plus, the strong urge to crossdress doesn't help the situation but I know for a fact that it is something that I cannot fight. I also want/must take my dressing further. I've got the clothes down very well (lucky to be 5' 8", 133lbs) but I have never progressed to makeup and I kinda feel like my feminine urges are somewhat suppressing my natural male self. Guess it's a Jekyll and Hyde sort of thing.