First the background: It's been many years since I tried to talk to my wife about crossdressing. She is definitely not for it, pretty much against it. I'm 5'8", about 230 pounds and have smallish man-boobs. In fact I've been measured for a bra and fairly well fill out a 42B. And the other piece of info you need is to know that I get up and take my son to school, my wife usually sleeps later due to her schedule. We are typically out of the house before she gets up. Now that you have that information:
I keep everything locked up tight - except one very basic white bra, almost like a sports bra. I like to wear it under my dark colored dress shirts. Yesterday I was planning to put it on as soon as I got out of the shower. But something happened that I got side tracked - I layed it with my PJ pants to see what it was. (Dogs barked? Son asked me something from down the hall? Butterfly flew by?) At any rate, I went back still somewhat distracted, got dressed without my bra.
It wasn't until after I dropped my son off at school that I realized what I had done. I was freaking half the day, figured if she said anything I'd let her know that it helps calm the bounce when I'm driving my truck (which is true!). Well I got home last night and went about my business of getting things ready for a weekend trip with my son. I discreetly searched high and low and found it folded up real neat - in a drawer where she keeps books and other misc. stuff. Oh, and there's no chance she'll think its one of hers she forgot about - I'm a 42B, she's a 38C. But she never said anything about it at all.
Now I'm kind of afraid of what or how she might approach this. Last night was just like any other night around her. I don't have the ba**s to just walk up and ask "did you find my bra?" I'm thinking I just wait and see what happens.
Feels good to just vent - thanks for taking time to read about my dilemma.