It seems to me that most of the girls here love the idea of their SO participating in their dressing. But I have talked with a few who see it as a private thing and actually prefer not to share it with their wife or girlfriend. I am not talking about those who keep it a secret because they feel their SO wouldn't be accepting; I am talking about those who choose not to involve their SO, regardless of whether she would be accepting or not.
I was wondering if anyone could help me understand this better? I have tried to put myself in your shoes and think about why I might not want my wife or girlfriend involved, and I can think of a few possible reasons, from the noble (not wanting to "burden" her or complicate her life with something you see as your personal problem) to the not-so-noble (not wanting her to be aware of how much money you spend, or where you go and what you do when dressed). Maybe there are some who feel ashamed and embarrassed about their dressing and don't want to compromise their partner's image of them by revealing this side of themselves.
I would appreciate any insight from you ladies. Thank you.