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[Tara1967]

For those of us that are married to our sweet and precious and oh so feminine wives, sometimes they can say the darndest things. I mean when my darling wife and I went down to the SCC last month, we were sitting at a dinner table. Crossdressers were everywhere. You couls look north, east, south and west, and you would always see 10 crossdressers and tg's galore. We all knew where we were. My wife and I would girl watch and would make private comments just among ourselves. Comments like, oh that person there had done a very good job, don't you think so Tara and I would agree. Or I would point out another cd and say to my wife, wow I wish I could look as good as her and my wife would say , yes she does look good. But somewhere during our meal , my love of my life leans over and says to me real low and real soft, and real sweet, " I hope no one here thinks I'm a CD"
Well I just lifted my eyebrows and smiled. What do any of you think about that comment she made? I mean, it would seem like, if we were all on a nudist beach all naked and walking around and I lean over to her and say, " I hope no one here thinks I'm a nudist" or if we were in a gun shop, and I lean over to her and say," I hope no one here thinks I'm a member of the NRA". Or it would be like a small child on kids say the darndest things and the child says, "I hope non one here thinks I very young". This thread is all in fun, what is anyone's take on this?.....(love & respect)..Tara

[Chickhe]

Well... I was watching some videos made by the owner of Wildside in Toronto and she said she has been mistaken for a crossdresser sometimes and laughs about it, but I suspect any GG would not like to be mistaken for a crossdresser because on some level it means they are failing in their role... I mean, she is supposed to be an expert at it, so how could she not pass... In reality though, there are a lot of great looking CDers who go beyond what a GG does to look perfect. The GG is at a disadvantage in some ways because she must live with what she has, whereas, a CDer can add padding and stuff to get the perfect proportions. Why can't we all just get along?... :-)

[robyn1114]

A couple years ago my wife and I were in Amsterdam and we went out to a little CD friendly bar as we were living and walking down the street I got outed and a few local young men were heckling us, to this day my wife still thinks they were talking about her.

[Persephone]

Was in London once on the tube with a GG friend. A woman across the way leaned over to her boyfriend/husband and whispered, "See those two? They're guys!"

[AKAMichelle]

I think it meant that she had to bring her A game in looks with all of the competition.

[Tamii]

It sounds to me that she may have been feeling insecure. If there are full time TS's there I'm sure some where flawless. It's almost the equivalent of you and her going to a normal bar club and you whisper to her "I hope no one here thinks I'm a CD". You don't mean any bad intentions by the comment, it's more so your insecurities talking.

[Kathryn Martin]

Seriously that is a very appropriate thought given the abilities some of us have mastered to transform ourselves. Now we think that if we are mistaken for a GG it's heaven but the reverse is not completely flattering because it implies that something masculine is in their presentation....

[AmiFL]

when you look as good as you do, I am more surpised that she didn't comment that there were two girls sitting together and what cd's were they with.... you are lovely I might add

[SherriePall]

I think it was more guilt by association. You two were out and about with CD's and TS's all around. Another place and time, that thought would not have crossed her mind.

[Tara1967]

when you look as good as you do, I am more surpised that she didn't comment that there were two girls sitting together and what cd's were they with.... you are lovely I might add

thank you for your very kind compliment, AmiFL