Due to a job change my wife and I are living in separate states. I am in NJ she is still with our home in NC. This past weekend she came to visit, to the best of my knowledge she does not know I dress, she wanted to go shopping at a local outlet which sells womens lingerie. She was looking at various bras, panties and pantyhose and picked several nice items. After looking around a little bit more she asked me if I saw anything I liked and proceeded to give me a sly smile and I asked what she ment. She said I always seem to pick the sexiest bras and panties for her did I see anything I liked and gave me the same smile I stammered why are you asking me she said no reason. We picked out some pjs for her and she kept smiling very funny at me. I did not have the courage to pursue the matter further but in hindsight I wonder if she was giving me an opening, a door to walk through but instead I walked into the door jam. I wonder if any of the married cds have had a similar experience and how have you handled it. I would appreciate any comments.