Too many threads on this forum seem to be about MtFs who appear to want nothing less than complete freedom to dress how, when and wherever they wish, regardless of the feelings and opinions of their SOs, or the probable consequences with regards to their relationships.
They insist on their individual right of complete freedom of choice.
In contrast, we read heart-rending accounts written by the stricken SOs, as well as plenty of good advice written by them and also some more thoughtful MtF CDers, urging these rugged individualists to remember that they are in a relationship, and to rather negotiate with their SOs, boundaries within which they may dress without placing too much stress on their better halves or the relationships.
The SOs and wise ones insist that agreed boundaries provide freedom from choice.
Dobie Gray described this state as “... the freedom of my chains, lying in your loving arms again.”
Please use this thread to offer your view on this conundrum. Which is better, freedom of choice or freedom from choice?
Why?