Two weeks in a row in sunday school my 5 yr old grandson commented to my wife how pretty a dress was that a classmate was wearing and coming home she commented about it because it concerned her so i asked her if she though he liked womens clothes to which she responded that it wasn't normal for a little boy to coment on how pretty a dress was.I said what are you trying to say and she said well if he is attracted to dresses we know where he gets it from.I said are you saying that it's my fault and she said yes.I quess my problem with that is in my case she thinks its a matter of choice but if he turns out to be a crossdresser that it's because of me.I will add that i'm very masculine outside the closet as is his father and other grandfather so if he has a feminine side it's not from the way we act around him but something he inherited.I know this is a complex question but wonder what your thoughs are around our femme side and where it comes from