I have been seeing this a lot lately.
The desire to be feminine, and yet "blend in".
I read some here do this by wearing blue jeans and "nice" sweaters or shirts.
I think I may have missed something here.
I am not sure about all of you but one of the things I love about feminine style is at present only women can wear them with little to no fuss.
I don't want to limit my daily wardrobe to those items I DON'T want to wear when in male mode, such as oh I don't know. BLUE JEANS!!! LOL
At least around my area both male and female styles are getting quite dull and boring. Aside from the girl's jeans fitting tighter, they are still friggin blue jeans, or some kind of denim material. Women wear slacks and hardly wear skirts.
I like skirts, I like form fitting pants, or suits, I like that stuff. The only way I want to blend in is when I am blending in along with everyone NOT blending in
Common people. Throw away rigid style, and DON'T blend in. It will make it easier for us silly people that don't like to blend.