I am so surprised that such treatment to u would happen in the very liberal Seattle area. I recently moved from there, after 29 yrs. That was awful!! Sadly, discrimination against males is still very strong. You were in drab, as a guy, and they considered you a pervert, or predator. That is blatant discrimination, and I really feel for you. I would be devastated also, if it happened to me. Treated like a criminal. In Seattle area, at that?! Emotionally, i would also be devastated. I feel for you.