Ok.... There's been a few things in my life that have changed since I started going out enfemme... Not life changing but definitely enhancements to my life.... no mater how I'm dressed...
First - I'm more outgoing.... OK I'm even more outgoing than I used to be... I tend to speak my mind and tell it like it is, no mater who's involved and that has got me in trouble at work a few times but more often than not, it's welcomed and appreciated.
Secondly - and this may sound funny and a little embarrassing..... I could never every stand up to use the restroom... especially if someone came in... I like froze up, even if I had to go really bad it just made it worse... I would have to go run for a stall.... Now I can go any where any time in front of anyone... Which is great since I drink a lot of water and diet soda and usually have to really really really go!! lol and this is a positive thing since I'm out in the field a lot...
Now for today.... Remembering that I drink a LOT of fluids..... I was leading a tour group through some old properties and we stopped for lunch in backwoods West Virginia... The group went and used the men's room while I ordered and paid for the food... Then when I went to use the facilities some local had locked himself in there and there were a couple guys standing there looking at each other.... So I'm thinking to myself "I have not seen a woman in here since we arrived.... I wonder" and tapped on the ladies room door and opened it a crack... Yeah!!! It's empty... I looked over at the guys and they gave me this WTF are your doing... glare as I slipped into the women's restroom and locked the door behind me...
After I was done I figured that the police would be waiting outside but the two guys were still standing there as I walked by... I said "smells a lot better in there than in the men's room" lol
Now I would have never ever even though of doing that before I started going out enfemme... Like it has made more confident in who I am or something like that....
Anyone else feel an increase in self confidence from their crossdressing?? or is it just me?