... and no one hears, did it make a sound?
If you wear clothing--shirts, pants, shoes--made for women and sold in women's stores, but in plain unisex styles, colors and patterns, so no one really notices, is that cross-dressing?
Today I went out in girl's trainers, jeans, polo & pullover, all black. Girl-side buttons on the polo, but not flagrant under the pullover. I didn't have the courage to carry a purse or put on a necklace, so just stuck the essentials in pants pockets. Lots of women go out in very much the same outfit, and of course lots of men as well.
So does that count as going out en femme?