I posted in a thread down in the Loved One Section. It was about Traditional guys and Olivia2 started it, but after reading the post the posters uncovered the reason I never told my SO that I was a cder and wondered if it is the reason others do not tell.
The gg posters, for the majority stated they would like to have a male SO that treated them in a traditional way, being all male, acting as non cding males. One poster said she could not hold hands or kiss her cding male, while out and about and her SO was dressed enfemme.
That is the reason I never told my wife I was a cder. I knew she was a strong willed person and was turned on, only by a strong masculine male, that presented the traditional male role. She never knew I was a cder and I always kept it well hidden from her, by have traditional jobs, (construction worker) hobbys, friends.
I ended the marriage, by leaving her, after 40 something years of marriage, for totally non cd related issues. It would take another thread, by itself to talk about that, but my point of this thread is to list my reason for not telling her, it was to have a traditional marriage, where only one presented as a male and one a female. In other words....I put my cding desires on the back burner for her sake, in order to have the traditional marriage. Have others had this reason or have you any comments about this. Anyone who likes can post in this thread.