Wow, interesting question. I am probably a 2-3 (married hetero male, ex-military, former boxer, hunt, fish, yada yada yada) and love being the one in the relationship that kills the bugs, fixes the car, chases the bad guys away, etc. I only wish that I could get my spouse to accept the fact that there are times when I want to simply and discreetly be a 9 or a 10! Maybe someday.