I'm a bit confused about something. A while back, when my little hobby became known to my wife, she hit the roof and the s**t really flew. One of the things she said, or rather shouted, at the time was that she liked "masculine men", and wanted her husband to be a "man's man". Yet when women complain about the men in their lives, mine included, the first thing they complain about is that their men are uncaring, insensitive, not in touch with their emotions, inattentive to them and their needs....we all know the list. From much of what I've seen, those of us who engage in crossdressing have gone a long way towards meeting many of those needs. Yet, as in the case we see right now with Michele, wives often simply do not accept a crossdressing husband even when his crossdressing has made him a more compatable spouse because of the "fringe benefits" of his becomming more caring, sensitive, attentive, etc. And then women wonder when we say that nothing makes them happy.......