Just to stimulate some thought and discussion, I’ve slapped together a sort of poll/survey/questionnaire for y’all. It is the product of perhaps all of 30 minutes of thought, and roams all over the place, so don’t judge it too harshly. Just some interesting questions that popped into my mind.
If you choose to answer, list each number and letter of choice: i.e., 1-A, 2-B, etc. Feel free to explain or elaborate on an answer if you desire, or to call me out on a question where you feel other choices were left out. If it seems like more than one choice applies to you, choose the one that best applies.
1. How do you view your female persona?
A. It is my true nature; spiritually and emotionally, I am a woman.
B. It is an expression of the feminine side of my dual-natured personality.
C. It’s a way to become someone else for a time; a vacation from myself, if you will.
D. It’s a form of role-playing; sort of an acting challenge.
E. It’s just fun; I don’t consider any deeper meaning to it than that.
2. When I am dressed.....
A. It is erotic and sexually exciting.
B. It is sensual and produces a warm feeling, but not overtly sexual.
C. It is just relaxing and helps me to reduce stress.
D. It allows me to explore feelings I can’t express as a man.
E. It’s just a pleasurable hobby; nothing earth-shattering.
3. If I could do it all over again.....
A. I would have started seriously dressing earlier and more frequently.
B. I wouldn’t change a thing; I like the way my life has unfolded.
C. I would have taken things a little more slowly and cautiously; this thing has taken over and complicated my life!
4. The one item of female clothing/accessories that really is most special to me is.....
A. Wigs and female hairstyles.
B. Makeup.
C. Lingerie and undergarments.
D. Pantyhose or stockings.
E. High heels.
F. Other (specify).
5. My favorite single girlish “prep” activity is:
A. Fixing my hair.
B. Putting on my makeup.
C. Plucking/shaping my eyebrows.
D. Shaving my legs.
E. Other (specify).
6. My female role model/idol in my formative years was:
A. My mother.
B. My sister.
C. Another female relative or friend.
D. A girlfriend or spouse.
E. A non-related authority figure (teacher, boss, etc.)
F. A celebrity.
7. When a man flirts or comes on to me when I am dressed.....
A. I love it! I am very attracted to males when dressed.
B. I accept and enjoy it simply as a compliment and confirmation of my passability.
C. I appreciate the interest, but it makes me a little uncomfortable.
D. It freaks me out; I’d rather not receive such attention from men.
8. If I had a son who showed signs of transgenderism:
A. I’d counsel and encourage him to fearlessly explore his feelings.
B. I’d remain somewhat neutral and cautious, but lovingly accept him for who he is.
C. I’d actively discourage him from facing the same struggles and problems I have dealt with.
9. My biggest regret or frustration concerning my crossdressing is:
A. I’m not happy with my appearance.
B. I don’t have the time or opportunity to dress as much as I would like.
C. I’ve alienated or lost family or friends because of it.
D. It’s complicated my life to a great degree.
E. Regrets? Frustration? No way – it’s all good.
10. This questionnaire is:
A. Stupid.
B. Interesting and insightful.
C. A haphazard and disjointed mess of amateurish psychological tripe.
D. The product of a very disturbed mind.
[SIZE="1"](Survey is not scientific or implied to be accurate or insightful. Your mileage may vary. Not valid in Afghanistan, the Canary Islands, or Brooklyn. Prices slightly higher east of the Sierras.)[/SIZE]