1990. Went to a bar/resturant place in Pittsburgh,Pa. I dressed for quite a few years before that and thought I looked close to passable. I wore a dress that would have more appropriate for a wedding. It was very crowded. I figured it out right a way, I was over dressed and did not look near as passable as I thought I did.
The next week I went back, wore a skirt, cami type top and a blazer. I in my own mind thought I looked much better. I actually had a good time on both trips and it became a weekly thing for several years.