Hey all,
You may have just seen my post about finally getting out which was a great experience and well needed, and I hope to do it again very soon but...
...heres a little twist for ya.
Whilst I appreciate that clubs on this scene provide a great platform for the like-minded to get out and maybe give us a sense of belonging - im a little undecided as to whether this is exactly for me.
I consider CD'in an important part of my life - however there are more interesting things about my personality. I feel like the only thing I really had in common with the people in the club is that I crossdress or belong to this community. Though I was asking other attendees many questions about there interests and personal life - I did not get one person ask about my hobbies, or personal life. It was just about dressing and acceptance.
What about the fact that Im a musician, i work in media, i love to travel... nope not one question. I learnt about other people because i was asking, but not one question actually about myself in return.
Does this make sennse? Its early days for me getting out - and I dont really know what my opnion is, just throwing this out for discussion!
Tash
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