I know that for many guys, dressing is a deeply ingrained part of who they are. For me, however, I have to admit that my motivation is sexual. I am really interested in sexy panties, lingerie, etc., and although I do love a short, sexy skirt, for the most part, regular women's clothing doesn't do much for me.
I have always found panties and lingerie exciting but I was first compelled to actually try them on in my college years. I was dating a girl and had bought her some sexy lingerie. I was disappointed that she never seemed interested in wearing what I bought her and I finally decided that if she wasn't going to wear it, I would!
So one day I tried it on and I was hooked. I loved the feeling, the look, everything! But I think that most of all I liked the realization that I didn't have to rely on my girlfriend to get my lingerie "fix". It was exciting to realize that I could buy whatever sexy panties and lingerie I wanted and enjoy it whenever I wanted.
Over the years I had several girlfriends, many of who were agreeable to wearing lingerie, but they never really got into it so I always just relied on myself.
I sometimes wonder - if I had a girlfriend who really liked sexy underwear, and who enjoyed wearing sexy lingerie for me, would my need to dress go away? I mean, as much as I love to dress myself in sexy lingerie, I think I love seeing sexy lingerie on a woman just as much, if not more (let's face it, it usually looks a lot better on them than it does on us! lol). But on the other hand, I also love the way it feels on me. I also (I am ashamed to admit) enjoy the feeling of wearing something that is taboo.
What do you think? Do you think that for some of us (and I emphasize some!), the reason we like to dress is simply because our girfriends or wives don't indulge us so we are forced to do the next best thing and wear it ourselves? Do you think that if your wife or girlfriend started wearing sexy underwear and lingerie for you, that would be enough for you and you would stop dressing? Or do you think it is too ingrained and that you would still feel compelled to dress no matter how often your wife or girlfriend catered to your love for all-things-sexy?