Whenever I'm hanging out with my "Dude Friends" and the topic of CDing comes up, (a noticeable CD in public, Jerry Springer, other T.V shows, etc.) their, and most guys immediate reaction is to say, "What a fag". Sure, on the outside, I chuckle and agree, but on the inside, I feel like I stabbed everything I believe in right in the back.
The world should know that most men who CD are heterosexual men who have no desire to be female. Sure, those folks exist, folks that CD and are gay and/or do want to be female, and I support them, but they don't make up the majority.
In the society we live in, nobody would EVER make an issue over a woman to be in public wearing jeans and a mens t-shirt....EVER! but if a man wants to wear a dress, he would never be perceived as "normal", most would assume he was gay, and he has deal with the stares, and he knows that everyone is judging him right in his face.
Logically, this makes absolutely no sense.
Sure, we're a lot closer than we were 50 years ago, but will we EVER live in society where males aren't "pushed" to be so masculine?