I read in this and other forums and hear from other girls I meet. A common thing is for those of us that are married with kids, our wives do not want the kids to know.
Okay, so I get it somewhat. Kids say things they shouldn't to the wrong people all the time, they probably shouldn't know too much about the family secrets.
On the other hand there is a negative effect. I want my kids to understand diversity and not to hold prejudice. How am I supposed to teach them that when I can't even tell them their father is a cross dresser?
Maybe I worry unnecessarily, but what do you think, should the kids know?