Hello Alice! Yes, I do see the Cheshire Cat!
I'm a member of a women's group. The Chairwoman is aware of my unusual (for a woman) bits, but told me "As far as I'm concerned, you are a woman. No-one has any need to know anything else."
Our monthly dinner meeting was tonight. While we were eating the Chairwoman came by and whispered a story into my ear.
It seems that when I came in one of the other women told her, "I've seen her before. But she was wearing men's clothes."
Madame Chairwoman said, "No, that was her brother. They're twins."
"Oh!" the woman said, "That makes sense."