Back in Nov., my wife posted one of my en femme photos on her facebook and I also changed my male real name profile photo to an en femme one for a few days...
My wife deleted the photo after a couple hours as she was only interested in sharing the photo with a few friends because she thought I looked pretty and she wanted to brag, lol.. Mine stayed up for close to a week as I wanted to come out to more friends and just made a photo my profile pic to see if any of my friends or family would recognize "her" as me.
So, my wife's Aunt saw both the one she posted and the one as my profile pic, instead of asking her about the photo, she goes and tells my mother in law about the photo.. Some time in December, my wife had to tell her mother and father that it was a "Halloween" photo and a joke.. just to avoid BS, problems and having to explain things and discuss it.
It took YEARS to get these people to accept us being together.. because they were PISSED that she married and had children with me because I had an ex and children with that ex and that I'm 10yrs older than my wife...
A little background on them.. Think 1950s old fashioned, conservative, god fearing, homophobic, transphobic, & racist.. Father in law has the attitude akin to "REAL MEN don't do this and that blah blah blah".. a real gung ho kinda guy, the manly man... Mother in law is more grounded in reality, but still harbors negative views on certain things or people...
Anyway, last week the wife and I were having a fight and during that fight she used my TG/CD etc as means for insulting me, but that wasn't enough.. she called her mother and her mom then wanted to talk to me to ask what was going on because she knows me to be the more reasonable and rational one, but while talking to mom in law, my wife yelled over me "HE DRESSES LIKE A GIRL MOM.. HE'S A CROSSDRESSER" I was speechless and just hung up the phone without saying a word.
So, that throws the "Halloween" pic right out the f'ing window now... and we don't know what to do now... My wife has not called back because she don't know what to say if her mom asks.. but the real issue is her father and his "views" on things and well, I don't know what to do either